Just the Thought of It

He hasn’t watched porn in awhile. He claims it’s been since I sent him the nasty Facebook message (and that he has had no desire to do so), though I’m pretty positive last week someone watched porn, because the web history was deleted and the only time that gets done by the guy in my [...]

Bodies Under Domination

Last night, The Boyfriend and I were so lucky. My Mom took the kids overnight, and we got to go out, just the two of us. It rarely happens, so you can imagine the relief we both felt. I had mentioned a fire pit event that I was interested in going to, hosted by BUD [...]

You Can’t Always Get What You Want!

These last couple of days has been completely unsatisfying. From lack of communication to sex that ends badly, it’s just been a series of days that makes me want to cry. After reaching my breaking point with the whole porn thing, I wrote The Boyfriend a message bitching about it on Facebook while he was [...]

Communication Responsibilities

So I was clicking around on my FetLife groups today, and I stumbled across this post, which discusses when you should cut your partner out of rope bondage. Reading through it, all these people are commenting on the Dominants responsibility to constantly be checking for signs of distress in the submissive. Seanchai comments: There’s little [...]