The night before last, The Boyfriend finally used the bondage tape on me. He seemed to have a much more luck with the tape then when I tried it out. He artfully wrapped my wrists together and then connected them to the bed so that my arms were together and over my head. You’d think [...]
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Craving Vulnerability
Posted: April 1, 2010 in RantingsTags: 24/7, Bondage, Bondage Tape, Cleaning, Control, Dominant, Dominate, Domination, Exercise, FetLife, Foreplay, Interest, life, Punishment, Reward, sex, Sexual, Submission, submissive, Submit, The Boyfriend
Need Help Writing
Posted: March 20, 2010 in RantingsTags: Alfie, bdsm, Blogger in Draft, Bondage Tape, Butt, Condoms, Depo, Family Planning, Flog, Flogger, Flogging, Lubes, Lubricant, Pregnant, Story, Submission, submissive, Submit, The Boyfriend, The Brighton Tales, The Erotica of a Tortured Mind, Vanilla, Wal-Mart, Writing, WTMFI Wednesdays
So, I’ve been hard at work these last couple of days, writing and writing and writing The Brighton Tales over at The Erotica of a Tortured Mind. I’ve made it to the end of Chapter 5, and now I’m unsure where to go. There’s so many characters who could potentially carry on in the story [...]
In a Perfect World – Receiving
Posted: March 7, 2010 in Perfect World, RantingsTags: 24/7, Alpha slave, bdsm, Behaviour Modification, Birthday, Bondage Tape, Bored, Chef, Collar, Comments, Cook, Crawl, Dining Room, Dinner, Discipline, Dominant, Feet, Female, Flogger, Flogging, Food, Instructions, Job, kink, Kinky, Kneel, Male, Mario Party 8, Martini, Master, Mistress, Online, Perfect World, Present, Protocols, Question, Readers, Resources, Retire, S/switch, Server, Session, sex, Shopping, slave, submissive, The Boyfriend, Training, Wii, Wine, Yesterday
The day before yesterday, The Boyfriend and I were sitting around bored out of our skulls with nothing better to do than doodle and write. I didn’t want to go on the computer, because I wanted to cuddle and he didn’t want to play games because he had already done that that day. I, of [...]
Communication Responsibilities
Posted: March 4, 2010 in RantingsTags: Aftercare, bdsm, Bondage, Comments, Communicate, Communication, Discussions, Dominant, EMT Scissors, FetLife, Goals, Groups, life, Mentors, Post, Reading, Respect, Responsible, Rope, sex, Sex Session, Sexual, submissive, The Boyfriend, Top
So I was clicking around on my FetLife groups today, and I stumbled across this post, which discusses when you should cut your partner out of rope bondage. Reading through it, all these people are commenting on the Dominants responsibility to constantly be checking for signs of distress in the submissive. Seanchai comments: There’s little [...]
WTMFI Wednesdays – Week 5: Would You Rather… #1
Posted: March 3, 2010 in WTMFI WednesdaysTags: Answers, Bathroom, Beauty, Bottom, Intelligent, kink, Kinky, Kitchen, Meme, porn, Pornography, Question, S/switch, sex, submissive, Top, Vanilla, Vanilla Sex, Wednesday, Would You Rather..., WTMFI Wednesdays
“Would You Rather…” This Week’s Questions Would you rather have sex with an incredibly sexy asshole or an average looking sweetheart? Would you rather watch porn or be in porn? Would you rather have sex in the kitchen or in the bathroom? Would you rather have kinky sex or vanilla sex? Would you rather be [...]
She Works Hard
Posted: February 13, 2010 in RantingsTags: 24/7, Activities, Alfie, bdsm, Beginner, Behavior Modification, blog, Breastfeeding, Experience, Experimenting, Fetishes, Hairbrush, Kinky, Lessons, Munch, Newbie, Research, sex, Sexuality, Spanking, submissive, Techniques, The Art Of..., The Boyfriend, Vanilla, Wii Your Shape, Wikipedia, Workout
I’ve been working really hard today on various blog stuff, mostly getting The Art Of… up and running. I’ve decided to set up a different blog for it, since I felt like I couldn’t get the flexibility I desired out of presenting it solely as a series here on The XXX Rated Rantings. I’m hoping [...]
