WTMFI Wednesdays – Week 15: Sexting

Posted: May 12, 2010 in WTMFI Wednesdays
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CherriesThis Week’s Questions

  1. Have you ever used your cellphone to send racy pictures or messages?
  2. Do you use a webcam for sexual purposes?
  3. How often do you have cyber sex?
  4. Do you use the internet to look at porn?
  5. Do you think X-rated content is too easy to access or too difficult?

What’s your stance on long-distance online relationships?


  • Each week, for Wednesday, you post answers to the five questions that are posted. You may answer all, or only one or two of the questions. You can post in whichever format works for you, be it video, poetry, answers, pictures or audio.
  • Insert the WTMFI Wednesdays image at the top of this post (get instructions here) into your post, linking back to The Rantings of a Tortured Mind – XXX Rated Edition at https://rantingsofatorturedmindxxx.wordpress.com
  • Leave a link to your post with the answered questions in the comments section of Wednesday’s WTMFI post. There is a special page for all the links that are submitted, so be sure to submit your links.
  • Have Fun!!!!
  • …Click the Read More button to see Valerie Rayne’s answers …

    CherriesThis Week’s Answers

    Question 1:
    Have you ever used your cellphone to send racy pictures or messages?

    When The Boyfriend and I first started dating, he was an absolute sweetheart and bought me a cellphone (in a two for one deal, so we both got matching cellphones. He had a blue faceplate and I had a red – our favorite colors. Surprisingly also my parents favorite colors…).

    Although I didn’t really need a cellphone, I had always wanted one. Only once did I ever send anything racy with a cellphone (it probably would’ve happened more, had I kept using the cellphone…), but I took a picture of myself, my boobs and my face anyways, in the mirror and sent it to him at work. Then he sent me a nice little picture back 😉

    Question 2:
    Do you use a webcam for sexual purposes?

    I’ve never had a webcam of my own. I’ve used a webcam in adult chat rooms, but never for a sexual purpose. Just for video chatting with other people. If I had a webcam though, I can almost guarantee that I’d be posting videos of The Boyfriend and I, I’d be masturbating on it. I’d love to have webcams running all throughout my house, on all the time and having people watching me!!

    Question 3:
    How often do you have cyber sex?

    Now, never. In the past, lots. I was always unimpressed with cyber sex. I mean, yes, it was fun because I’m a bit of an erotic wordsmith. I enjoy writing erotically and I like to think I’m pretty decent at it. Unfortunately, when you’re cybering, the other person hardly cares to use descriptive words or anything like that. So it’s only mildly entertaining.

    I’ve also never masturbated while having cyber sex. If I’m typing, I keep both hands firmly on the keyboard. It’s just the way I type, and I couldn’t imagine doing it any differently. Using one hand takes me ten times as long, and I think to fast to type slow.

    Question 4:
    Do you use the internet to look at porn?

    Yes. I almost prefer the internet to DVD. Videos are shorter, it goes right into the sex without the cheesy storyline, and if I hate it, it’s as simple as pushing my browsers back button. Plus, porn on DVD is out of my budget! I’d love to have a huge porn DVD collection, I just think bookmarks are more likely.

    Question 5:
    Do you think X-rated content is too easy to access or too difficult?

    Depends on what perspective I’m looking at if from. From my perspective, I think the type of X-rated content that I want access to is too difficult to find. But I’m not looking for porn! Porn is really easy to access, and from the perspective of a parent, a simple “Yes, I’m 18” or “No I’m not” link isn’t really protecting anyone from anything when there’s no verification process.

    So I’m torn…

    What’s your stance on long-distance online relationships?

    For me, personally, I can’t ever see it working. I’m not very good with the whole long-distance thing to start off with (too many insecurities where faithfulness is concerned). I don’t easily trust people with my loving in real time, let alone online. I just don’t think I could do it.

    But I think that people who are smart about it and have no issues doing it, why not. I don’t like hearing about people who talk to someone once or twice on the internet, in a different country entirely, and then hop on a plane and go meet the person. I think if you’re going to risk it, you should definitely risk it while keeping yourself in a very safe place.

    1. I know it’s not Wednesday – but still I wanted to join in on the fun!! My answers are here -> http://screamingviolet.wordpress.com/2010/05/15/more-about-me-sexting


        And thank you so very much. You are officially the very first person to actually do WTMFI Wednesdays!!!

        Loved your answers, especially about the x-rated content question. My favorite part was about your son finding your porn in the PS2, I’ve had that exact same thing happen to me before. Britney Rears 3!! Again, thank you and I can’t wait to read more!!! See you on Twitter 😉

    2. I’ll add your site to my weekend reading list and recommend some of the other bloggers in the adult sphere join in.
      for me it gives me good, personal and insightful content for my blog but without the hard work of structuring a post lol
      I just have to work out the image link thing as even with my web background I couldn’t get it to show up on wordpress. I might just save and upload image to my site!!

      And thank you again. I love these memes and such!

      • Yeah sorry about the image thing. WordPress adds additional quotation marks when you copy and paste the code. My suggestion would be to either upload it to your site, or write out the code by hand, that way you don’t have to deal with the additional quotations. I’m pretty sure it’s just after the last slash on your image, there’s a quotation (I checked it out the other day, so you might try that and see if it works).

        I really appreciate you participating and sharing with all your followers. And I’m glad that you’re enjoying them. I enjoy answering the questions as well, and I’m surprised at how much I’ve discovered about my sexual self. Can’t wait to see more from you 😉

    3. I got it working – kind of shameful for me as a web designer to have screwed that up lol -> to get the right code to show up
      in the spots where you have the ‘ ” ‘ you need to type &quote; into the html tab on your wordpress dashboard for it to show up on your page – email me if you need help with it

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