Fetish Checklist

I am interested in a variety of fetishes, though have had little experience where many of them are concerned. Below is a list of all the things I hope to try in my lifetime. I’ve included descriptions of each below, so that those who have never heard of them, will have a better understanding. Enjoy!

  • 24/7 or Total Power Exchange (TPE)
    Term refers to a relationship where the Dominant or Owner has complete authority and influence over the submissive’s life. Protocols are in place at all times.

    I am interested in being a Dominant to my own submissive, as well as submitting to my own Dominant.

  • Abrasion
    Rubbing or being rubbed with abrasive surfaces such as sandpaper or steel wool.

    I would like to be on both ends of this one 😉

  • Algolognia
    Pain, especially involving erogenous zones.

    I would like to give and receive.

  • Ass Play
    Playing with another person’s ass or rectum, or having your own played with.

    If you’ve ever read my rants, you know that I love playing with other people’s butts. Especially The Boyfriend’s. I like receiving ass play, though I’m not so much into things in my rectum. I’ll do it, but it’s not one of my favorites.

  • Bathroom Use Control
    Controlling or having someone else control your bathroom use.

    This is one of those things that is up there on my list, and would love to receive or give this as part of a 24/7 relationship.

  • Behavior Modification
    Giving rewards and punishments to correct behavior as desired.

    I have long desired having some sort of behavior modification put in place. Originally, I would’ve preferred to give it to someone else. But lately, I’ve been massively craving it for myself.

  • Bondage
    The act of restraining or being restrained for sexual pleasure.

    There is nothing about bondage that I don’t love.  I really desperately want a ton of rope, and I want to get into shibari (Japanese Rope Bondage).

  • Shoe/Boot Worship
    Having your shoes/boots worshiped by another person, or worshiping another’s shoes/boots.

    I don’t want to be doing this to other people, but I would love to make someone do it to my shoes or boots, whichever I happen to be wearing at the time.

  • Caging
    “Forcing” or “Being Forced” to be locked in a cage.

    This one could go either way. I’d like to be on the receiving and giving ends of this. It would be fun to lock The Boyfriend up and tease the crap out of him, and I would love to be locked up and teased.

  • Caning
    Using a cane or having a cane used on you.

    This is another one of those fetishes, that  is very recent for me. I’d love to have marks left over by a cane.

  • Chastity Belts/Devices
    Designed to prevent sexual intercourse and/or masturbation.

    I’d love to be “forced” to wear one, and also really would love to make The Boyfriend wear one.

  • Clamps/Clothespins
    Placing clamps or clothespins on the body, including nipples and genitals.

    I would love to get me a pair of nipple clamps. Especially lately, since my nipples have been so sensitive.

  • Cock Worship
    Exactly as it sounds, worshiping a man’s genitals.

    I’d like to think I’m already a bit of a cock worshiper. But I’d love to turn it into a serious thing, with more of a routine. I’d like to do it alot more often than I do!

  • Cock and Ball Torture (CBT)
    Male genital torture which may include wax play, squeezing, urethral play and even kicking.

    I don’t want to be too extreme, but a little bit of CBT would be fun. I’d especially like to give a gentle flogging to a man’s penis 😉 Some scratching would be nice too!

  • Collar
    A symbol of ownership.

    In a perfect world, I would love to receive a collar. I would love to wear a training collar, and have a collaring ceremony and have to wear my collar every single day! If there was a leash to go along with it, I’d be all the more happy.

  • Control Clothing Choice
    Exactly as it sounds, controlling what another wears or having control over what another person wears.

    I think it would rock to have The Boyfriend pick out what I wear everyday, and I’d love to do the same for him.

  • Corsets
    Wearing or being “forced” to wear a corset.

    Love this one so much! I want a corset so bad, WAH!! I’d love to have a very strict waist training regime. Though would not like to go to the extremes of a 13″ waist!!!

  • Cutting
    Being cut or cutting for sexual pleasure.

    I’m already into this, mostly in the form of self-mutilation. I’ve been cut erotically a few times, and absolutely loved it. Don’t  think The Boyfriend will ever be into this one.

  • Discipline
    Following or instructing to follow a particular code of conduct. Enforcement is often through punishment and rewards.

    Since I’m into the idea of behavior modification, it only makes sense that I’m into the idea of discipline as well.

  • Exhibitionism
    Public sexual activity and exposure.

    Very, very into this. Have been known to have sex in public, think it’s how my third was conceived. I have more fears about doing it now that I have more fears of authority and the law…

  • Eye Contact Restrictions
    Control over how much and in what situations a person can make eye contact.

    Would love to have restrictions on this. Would love to give out restrictions on it as well 😉

  • Flogging
    Using a flogger

    I’ve had a few light flogging experiences, and would love to get really really into it. I’d like to be doing it at least once a week. It’s a huge stress reliever for me.

  • Food Choice/Directed Eating
    How much, when and what to eat.

    I think that if I was being directed to eat at specific times of day, with specific foods and amounts, I would probably eat much healthier than I currently do!

  • Foot Worship
    Having your feet worshiped, or worshiping another’s feet.

    I would love to be on the receiving end of this, having someone worship my feet!! Don’t care too much to worship someone else’s feet, except maybe through pictures.

  • Forced Masturbation
    Being “forced” or “forcing” someone to masturbate.

    Would love for The Boyfriend to force me to masturbate in front of him. He doesn’t ever even ask, so I don’t ever do it. Even though he claims he loves to watch!

  • Forced Nudity
    Being “forced” or “forcing” someone to be nude, either privately or publicly.

    I have alot of insecurities, and am rarely ever completely nude even during sex. Most of the times, I’ll keep a shirt on that way my stomach stays covered. I’d love for someone to force me to be nude, and appreciate what they see in front of them. Even if it means that I absolutely hate it. That’s what aftercare is for!!

  • Gags
    There are a variety of types of gags, from ball-type to bit, that prevent speech.

    I’ve always wanted to try a gag, though I’m not sure that I would really enjoy it that much, since alot of my expressions during sexual acts are all vocal, but I think it could be alot of fun!

  • Hairpulling
    Having your hair pulled or pulling someone else’s.

    One of my favorite things to have done to me. I love giving head while The Boyfriend has his hand clamped around my hair, forcing the movements of my head!! I even love to pull his hair.

  • Orgasm Control/Denial
    Controlling when and how a person has an orgasm. Denial involves denying orgasm, for no longer than 6 months.

    I would love to be on the giving and receiving ends of this one also!

More will be added to this list as time goes on, so check back every once and awhile for updates!

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